v. 1-19 First of all, Rehoboam and his friends were absolute idiots for their response to the people. Totally arrogant and foolish. That is plain enough.
But what is especially interesting to note is the way in which Rehoboam sought our counselors who would tell him what he wanted to hear. It seems clear enough (knowing my heart to some degree) that when we really to do something without seeming to cast off all advice in complete arrogance, we pursue people who will agree with us. This happens so much that I suppose I could tell myself or someone else to simply be on the look out for 2 or 3 examples today.
So, in light of Rehoboam’s foolish arrogance (the two go hand in hand), we are wise to first, seek out elderly counsel and second, to listen to them. We must pursue counsel with a humble heart, a heart willing to hear and embrace that which we do not want to hear and embrace. Our agenda must be set aside and we must submit to the will of the community. In this sense, community can at times hinder us from what we really want to do. But what we really want to do may not be best. And if we don’t believe that, we are arrogant as can be.
Two things can exist within us when trying to discern the Lord’s will. 1) A conviction concerning what that will actually is. And 2) A firm and settled belief that we may be wrong.
To possess these two things at the very same time is by no means easy. It will require much prayer and a humble, broken heart before the Lord that trusts Him to reveal His will through our community.
Finally, one other thought…..we make far too many decisions by ourselves. It is easy in one respect to allow our ‘many counselors’ to make decisions for us. But it is more difficult in another respect, namely, b/c it requires us to humble ourselves in recognition that we don’t have it all figured out. We are wise to learn from Rehoboam’s folly. Indeed, we are wise to learn from our own, for we have surely done exactly what he did at some point during our days.
v. 15 “So the king did not listen to the people, for it was a turn of affiars brought about by God that the Lord might fulfil his word, which he spoke by Ahijah the Shilonite to Jeroboam the son of Nebat.”
Now that is simply incredible. But the beauty of it is that it is also true when we make such foolish decisions. Indeed, it is true in some sense in every single decision made on Earth. The Lord God is fulfilling His will and even using the foolish decisions of arrogant men to do so. Lessons are learned. Sin is exposed. Cause and effect relationships continue, relationships that we can by no means follow, but that the Lord knows full well.
This is a great comfort to us when we have failed to learn as we ought to have learned, when we have gone our own way. The Lord is still in control and He wants to teach us something and work in us something that might not otherwise have been exposed, had we taken the right and humble path.
The Lord is working all things out for good for those who love Him, for those who have been called according to His purpose. And this is true even of our sin and poor decisions. It is just wonderful to know He is that big!